Sep 17, consistent parenting-what is consistent parenting and how we do it?

I truly believe that the parenting consistent creates happy families. What is consistent parenting? What we understand by the phrase-be consistent? This means that we can't change our minds? It means that we are stuck in a rigid system of beliefs and actions? Or means the opposite of what and bringing freedom to us and our families? What does it mean to be consistent?

To be coherent, it must be reliable, reliable and constant.

These words convey immediately comfort don't they?

Be reliable means it can be trusted. When I think that people who I can trust, the first thought that comes to mind is that I know that if they say they will do something, they will. If they say that they will be on schedule are punctually. I have full confidence in my expectations of them.

This is how you want to be seen by children?

This is how you want to see your children become?

Be reliable means that you are Not constant and responsible. These are the values that you want your children to learn from you?

Being constant means being stable, regular and even in your approach.

Doesn't this make you feel comfortable and safe?

I believe that in order to grow and become everything possible, we need to experience the change at many levels.

So be consistent isn't being blocked and unchangeable.

Consistent Parenting is to understand what we mean and our parents intuitive making to be reliable, authentic, reliable and consistent.

Means be consistent in fighting for the best for us and our children-looking after our emotional maturity as parents-recognizing when we could do better and recognizing when we did well in our parenting.

It means saying what you mean clearly, being stuck with the objective and be consistent with your actions.

Having the self-awareness and intention that this will be our approach.

Be consistent in our approach is easier if this behavior was modeled for us by our parents; However, we can make the choice to change our approach to parenting to become more coherent.

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Often, there are unreliable and change our minds simply because we just do not have thought through all the consequences clearly-rather how to engage the mouth before your brain! such as:
If you make any statements to your children like this-
From now on you guys are going to be responsible for cleaning up the toys before going to sleep-
It is therefore necessary that follow! this means that the task that you want to happen.

Now if your children and then create a fuss, suddenly have a lot of home, grizzle and complain or make themselves scarce, it is easier if you just ordered on all toys. at least this one gets cleaned anyway! however, children have learned several vital lessons from your actions.

1. MOM doesn't mean what you say.
2. create a scene If I can get away with it
3. MOM will anyway!

A wonderful lesson around care, family, responsibilities and consequences is lost.

Care-because it provides an opportunity to take care of your own personal environment for the sake of others

Responsibility-cleaning offers opportunities to take control and make decisions

Consequences-playing with toys and spreading out requires putting them away as well.

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