Today, a big stone of stumbling blocks for parents is discipline. Some wish to avoid completely, while others have trouble with what is appropriate. What should you do in the day day, when the moment? One of the things I noticed in the last 20 years is that the confidence of parents in the discipline has suffered. Parents are provisional when it comes to exercise discipline and when they do, they tend to be relatively low effort.
This has come about for a few reasons. Today, parents have to spend as much time outside of the House that feel guilty about it. Also, some want to be first the child, friend our. Moreover, it seems that the rules to be a parent have changed in the years; it is sometimes difficult to know if you is too hard on children.The trend is now may have erred on the side of the Yes, in the case of non-past was by défaut.La question here is wrong Yes much, much worse than a bad no.
We must look at this not as a leadership, but only challenge on discipline, because if you try to simply be it occupied without creating a foundation where your child approves and respect you, it ends in failure.Now, leadership can be a word imposant.Un father once said to me: "I do not want to save the world; I just want to keep my child difficulties!" I assume that most parents agree with this statement, so we will work with something that anyone who has never held a job includes: parents should be the boss.
In fact, I need to be more specific ici.Les parents should be the good boss, not this bad boss that Cree - and everyone ignores it. This bad boss worried about just being difficult guys and not a leader, so we need to focus on what we should do to be a leader and a good boss.If we can model how "manage us" our children based on our own experience with a boss we truly respected, we can become leaders in our family, instead of passenger frazzled.
What do you think? How to address the child discipline in your home? and are you a boss "good" or a "bad boss"?
John McPherson is a leadership and management in Salinas, CA consultant.John and his wife Christina have two children, Fiona, and Carson.Parents John both Christina had a major influence in their education, which enabled them to define how they would be parent their children.In the last ten years, John has observed of parenting practices number distant principles he Christina were found to be successful, and this led him to write a book on parenting, titled " ten simple rules for being a parent in a World Upside Down Turned ".
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